A girl makes the fastest progress when she lost her sense of security.
一个女生进步最快的时候,是她失去安全感的时候。
She must overcome fear, dependence, and disappointment, Gradually grow one's own armor.
她必须克服恐惧、依赖和失望,一点点地长出自己的铠甲。
Starting to cherish one's wings, starting to awaken, starting to have a sense of control over life, Quit emotions, no tears, it will never be led by the nose again.
开始爱惜自己的羽翼，开始醒悟,开始去对生活拥有掌控感,戒掉情绪，没有眼泪,再也不会被人牵着鼻子走。
I really like what Mo Yan said: when your hand is tightly held by someone else,may be loosened. When you are intoxicated by promises made to you by others, there will be moments of disappointment.
很喜欢莫言说的一段话:当你的手被别人握紧的时候，就可能被松开,当你沉醉在别人给你承诺中时,就会有失望的时候。
Experience tells us, what you want can only be fought for by yourself, only oneself can not disappoint oneself.
经历告诉我们想要的东西只能靠自己争取,只有自己才不会辜负自己。
